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Life Skill Reminders: A Valuable Two Dozen

March 3, 2014 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

I spent much of February working overseas throughout the United Kingdom. At the end of each sales program I provided each attendee a printed summary of life skill reminders that are built into my work. Since life skills are relevant to everyone, they have proved to be an effective means to teaching business principles and […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Influencing Behaviors, Jobs, Life Skills

Success: What it Isn’t . . . and Is

February 3, 2014 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

Barbara King of NPR recently reintroduced Amy Chua’s inflammatory opinions into the discussion of success in modern America. Chua wrote a book about raising her daughter according to the strict (high) expectations of her own parents, who were Chinese immigrants. Chua now considers herself an expert and recently co-authored a rather nutty column in the […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Life Skills

How to Handle the Post-Holiday Blues

December 28, 2013 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

I live in a city that enjoys three months of each season. With Christmas comes the winter chill and white stuff we dream about as kids. This year things seemed different. The weather turned cold and it snowed a bit but the mailman delivered fewer cards than he used to. Some who used to opted […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Holidays, Life Skills

Sacrificing Too Much for Success? 15 Warning Signs

December 22, 2013 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

“Despite excellent performance and good money the worker always seems tired and is rarely happy.” If this describes you, you may be sacrificing too much in the chase for material success. A recent blurb by John Brandon in INC Magazine about the concept of over-sacrifice made me stop and think about high achievers and workaholics. […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Jobs, Life Skills, Time Management, Worry

Signficant Emotional Events: What They Are & How They Change Lives

November 2, 2013 by Ocean Palmer 1 Comment

2 November 2013 Our map of the world is shaped by a variety of influences during our formative years, ages 0-to-13. Contributors include our family unit, friends, relatives, religion, socioeconomic status, schooling, neighborhood, teachers, coaches, life experiences, and more. Because of these things, who we are as an adult is fairly well formed by our […]

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Filed Under: Coaching, Happiness, Jobs, Managing Conflict

Office Morale: Why It Is . . . The Way It Is

October 28, 2013 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

Anticipation vs. Realization Why Workplace Attitudes Are What They Are Complex dynamics — such as company morale — do not necessarily require exceedingly complex explanations. In simple terms, organizational emotions are shaped by the relationship between two things, what people expect and what they experience. What people expect. What do workers — individually and collectively […]

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Filed Under: Coaching, Happiness, Influencing Behaviors, Jobs, Life Skills, Managing Conflict, Multi-Generational Effectiveness

Why You Need Your Sleep

October 22, 2013 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

We’ve all heard too many times to count that we’re better off getting plenty of sleep than just a bare minimum. But do you know why? A very interesting article penned by James Gallagher, Health and Sciences reporter for the BBC, explained the answer in layman’s terms I felt compelled to share. The short answer […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Life Skills, Worry

Why Modern Progess is One Step Forward, One Step Back

September 23, 2013 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

It must be reunion season. Having heard from several friends over the past couple weeks who are courageously heading to theirs, I’ve wished them godspeed and safe egos. Reunion are not my thing. They are like root canals, buying tires, or having to rent a tuxedo. None are listed on the first 28 pages of […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Influencing Behaviors, Life Skills, Managing Conflict, Time Management, Worry

“How Can We?” vs. “Can’t Because…”

September 5, 2013 by Ocean Palmer Leave a Comment

One of the keys to a consistently happy life is choosing its best approach. This awareness — that choice exists — is an acquired intuitive deduction because of our upbringing. During our formative years our parents and guardians make our decisions for us, usually by mandate. They tell us what we can and cannot do, […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Life Skills

Common Traits of Unlikeable People

August 17, 2013 by Ocean Palmer 38 Comments

part 2 of 2 (part 1 dealt with “Likeable Traits”) Shared below is a robust list of “unlikeable traits” largely created by one of my recent business classes. As you read these, remember that these words describe perceptions. The learning point is vital: While we tend to judge ourselves by our intentions . . . […]

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Filed Under: Happiness, Influencing Behaviors, Life Skills

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